Podcast Episode 1 Show Notes

For the first episode of The Bootleg Book Club, Sam and Felicia discuss Lizzie Damilola Blackburn’s debut novel Yinka, Where is Your Huzband? The sisters introduce themselves and why they decided to join the online reading community including #Booktube and #Bookstagram. 

About the Author

The background on Mrs. Blackburn and the influence of her British Nigerian culture in her book. 

Book Look

  The main character Yinka is feeling a lot of pressure to get married by her mom and aunt. Especially considering her younger sister and cousins have already found love. 

Bookmark

Some of the most poignant moments are discussed through the girls favorite quotes they found highlight worthy such as 

  • “The midnight sky is just as beautiful as the sunrise” p. 73
  • “I am who  I say I am” p. 132 
  • “Don’t be suffering in silence” p. 264
  • “You see, I’m responsible for my happiness” p. 174 
  • “Well, that’s the way God made you. That explains things. As long as you’re happy.” p. 214  

POV

Sam and Felicia discuss their favorite characters, Nola and Aunty Blessing as well as their least favorite character Ola. 

Deep Dive

Felicia and Sam share a few spoilers and talk in depth about the book’s themes such as family, love, Black womanhood, singleness, faith, and mental health. 

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Yinka, Where is Your Huzband? | Book Review by Felicia

Yinka, Where is Your Huzband? by Lizzie Damilola Blackburn is a  heartwarming and hilarious novel about learning to love yourself. I definitely give this book a 4 star rating and suggest you read it. 

About:

This is a romance book about Yinka, a 31 year old British Nigerian woman who pushes to find a date to her cousin’s wedding. At a glance it seems as if Yinka has a great life. But, according to her mom and aunties she needs a man.  After feeling a lot of pressure to find a man, Yinka strategically, sets out a plan to meet and be with the best guy. Date after date Yinka starts to change herself for all of the wrong reasons. With help from friends Yinka learns how to love her true self. 

Review:

Lizzie Damilola Blackburn writes with such an authentic and creative voice. Every page of this book was a worthwhile read. I absolutely recommend this book to anyone who needs a bit of love, especially self love in their life. It’s a great laugh and lively book. 

The story begins at Yinka’s little sister’s baby shower and we are introduced to all the women in the  family. We quickly learn that there are many  issues brewing within Yinka’s family and life. In just six months Yinka’s cousin will be getting married and Yinka really wants a date for the occasion. Blackburn, intensely expresses the desperation Yinka feels to find a date for the wedding. From there everything in Yinka’s life starts to go downhill because Yinka begins to transform herself for the wrong reasons.

In addition to looking for a date it is clear that Yinka is in search of purpose in her life. As things start to unravel Yinka continues to slip down a dark path and quickly loses the best pieces of her character. She starts hiding behind lies and schemes that generate tension between the real relationships she has with friends and family. Eventually, Yinka must face the hard truths in her life in order to accept the love, comfort, and kindness she deserves to thrive rather than just survive. 

Lizzie’s writing captures the authentic emotion and mindset a person faces when challenged with learning how to be comfortable in their own skin. I felt deeply connected to the position Yinka was in life as she dealt with family dynamics, career choices, mental health, and so much  more. Yinka was seeking love in all the wrong places. It took time but in the end she is able to look inward and fight for herself. 

Essentially, Yinka is going through it but I found a lot of myself in her and admired many other characters. I truly enjoyed reading this novel and I can’t wait to read more from Lizzie Damilola Blackburn. 

This is Why Sam Loves The Bootleg Book Club

What It’s All About? 

Sam with portrait of Toni Morrison, American Novelist. National Portrait Gallery Washington DC

The Bootleg Book Club Podcast has been an idea that Felicia and I have considered for a few years now. Although six years apart we have always been able to connect on being book nerds. I introduced her to Wattpad when I realized just how much her book budget had grown. Fast-forward a few years and as she was busy in college and I in law school we realized we just weren’t reading for fun as much as we used to. This project is a way for us to get back into reading regularly now that we have both graduated and to foster a book reading community that can have candid conversations. 

Initially, The Bootleg Book Club was born from the reading circle of my sisters and aunt. We all loved reading and were able to share that with each other by passing books back and forth between us. It was a perfect way to stay connected and it helped reconnect us when I returned from teaching English in Spain. As we read books one after the other, it was a joy as we could reminisce and laugh at certain scenes or characters together – even coming up with inside jokes and recommending books to each other based on our favorite characters. Namely, we joked how we were all too cheap to buy our own copy and were bootlegging off of each other as we passed the book from person to person. The  summer we intentionally all read Crazy Rich Asians, it was a special treat when the book was made into a movie and we all got to see it together at an early screening, solidifying what it meant to be part of our bootleg club – love of books and love of each other. With this podcast, we hope to share that love with other book lovers. 

My Reading Journey

I cannot tell you the exact moment I fell in love with reading, I just know that I always loved language and words. I loved making up stories and had many imaginary friends growing up whose stories I enjoyed writing about. 

I can tell you that my parents fostered that love for language (probably because they needed help with English since they are Haitian immigrants) and that at nine years old I was placed in the advanced reading group at my school. One weekend while at the local library, a woman was looking to get rid of her book collection of The Baby-Sitters Club and she asked my dad if I liked to read (DUH!). She gave us her entire collection for free – it was an entire bin’s worth. I would read The Baby-Sitters Club all day and night long. I just couldn’t put the books down. This obsession with reading continued – I was admittedly part of the Twilight fan craze, even finishing Breaking Dawn within a 24 hour period. 

In a professional capacity, my love of language became more obvious when I became  an English Language Assistant and a Reading Tutor after college. Then, I went to law school, and reading for pleasure started to feel like it would never happen again for me. A book that used to take me 2-3 days to finish now could take as long as 2-3 months. With The Bootleg Book Club Podcast, I can already see myself being pulled out of that rut – I’m so excited to discuss our first pick I’m flying through it.  

More About Me

I am at the tail end of my 20s and a single cat mom. An introvert through and through who will always pick watching a movie at home on the couch over going to any event with more than 3 people in attendance. You can lure me out with the promise of a good glass of wine (whiskey or rum).  I’ve recently picked up scrapbooking and can’t get enough of purple washi tape. I’m an inactive attorney trying to figure out the data privacy world. And, I’m a former world traveler who hasn’t been on a plane since 2020, praying Omicron doesn’t cancel any more of my travel plans. 

Until then, happy reading and follow us on all of our Social Media Platforms and Save the Date for the Launch of our first Podcast. We are reading Lizzie Damilola Blackburn’s debut novel Yinka, Where is Your Huzband? This book is a  timely and perfect fit for Valentine’s day coming so grab your copy to read along with us or wait for our review.